We born. Get raised, and functioned by this society only to be successful. Get into the race to become successful. Society divides different rules for men and women and we jumped into the accomplishment of the result that acknowledges the level of success! In this human race circus the only thing that lacks and hit us after our 30s are " SELF-LOVE" & " SELF -CARE "
We humans often fall into the trap of this delusional, superficial world where modern arts and films manipulate our minds. They impel us to believe that our search for love must come from another person, rather than fostering self-love and self-care and understanding within ourselves. It’s time to reclaim our mindset and prioritize our well-being! We live short. By the time we hit our 30s, the realization strikes: "Why haven’t I followed my path all this time?" It’s a wake-up call that often brings immense mental and psychological frustration, along with various health issues! Yet, we still hesitate to take action. We spend more time dwelling on that frustration instead of confronting it head-on and making the necessary changes!
THINK:
At around 15, a lot of us start to get a bit more mature, and in this AI and tech-driven world, we really should be thinking about our health. It’s crazy how much info we have at our fingertips, yet some of us still choose unhealthy habits to celebrate or cope with stuff. It doesn't make sense! Eating right is super important, and what we put into our bodies affects how we feel and function. We cannot deny the fact that what we eat influences how we live. I believe the first thing we should focus on is to "eat right," which should be included in the book of your self-love.
In our daily lives, we often prioritize indulgence in food and neglect the importance of physical activity. This tendency can lead us to forget that even if we accumulate wealth and success, the true enjoyment and fulfillment of that success may be elusive without maintaining an active lifestyle, and staying physically active, ensures that we can truly enjoy the fruits of our labor.
It’s quite common for us to overlook our self-care in daily life. We tend to invest in gadgets, phones, and stylish clothes, yet often neglect our physical cleanliness and well-being. It’s not about spending a lot of money or following extravagant routines; rather, it’s the little things that matter. Taking some time for yourself to enjoy a warm bath, brush your teeth, or take care of your nails can truly make a difference. We all deserve those moments of self-love and careful attention.
Nowadays, we loudly talk about mental health, and care about our mental health. It is our peaceful mental condition that allows all things in life to cope. We spend more time on social media rather than learning things that produce these peaceful items in our lives! Rather than producing memories with family, or pampering time with cousins, we prefer to give away time to make unknown people known! How foolish are we?
Many individuals often assert that the little things in life lose their significance once you achieve success. But I ask you, does that hold? What value does life have without the essential element of self-love? Consider this for a moment. Without the nurturing practice of self-care, how can you ever truly savor the result of your accomplishments? It's a vital foundation that allows you to appreciate and enjoy every milestone you reach.
Believe me, dears, lining up your self-love and self-care is essential for a fulfilling life and will ultimately make you a better contributor to the world. No one values a successful yet frustrated and unhappy person when it comes to celebrating humanity! You live once, and one day you will die. If, at any point, you’ve neglected your well-being just to gain approval from others, thinking that being selfless makes you virtuous, then trust me you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
As individuals, we often have a tendency to give recommendations on topics that do not concern us. We take on problems that aren't ours and sometimes feel no shame in offering opinions on others' suffering. Why has this become a part of our personal lives? Instead of simply sharing our opinions, have we ever attempted to address these issues at their root? Most of us haven't because these matters are usually outside our area of expertise or beyond our control. Yet, we still get involved, seeking some form of mental satisfaction from it. Please understand this is a sickness. We are attacked by this sickness because deep down we are unhappy. This feeling of unhappiness stems from a lack of self-care and self-love.
Listen, this world will always judge you. People around you will always talk behind your back. Do not stop living for them. Once you stop loving yourself for this delusional world, it will burden you even more.
So, right away, I would suggest please stop and focus on the blog line “SECURE SELFISH, SELF-LOVE & SELF-CARE”