In our day-to-day life, especially the young mind and people aged 25-32, we often hear, "How useless are you? " or your boss says, " Oh, you, you are so useless ", or any of your paternal or maternal side uncle or aunts says so, or sometimes it is our parents as well unfortunately, but its true, especially in this Asian reason, who says, " oh, you are so useless !"
Tell me, If someone thinks you are useless, does it make you useless? You become a Unless when you start believing so and act like one.
What have you done to improve your situation instead of blaming fate or others? You might argue that I can write this on a blog because I have a computer and know English. But if you're reading this, chances are you have an Android phone, a laptop, or a desktop, meaning you're educated enough to understand the words and wealthy enough to have regular meals. Now, in your privileged position where you don't have to worry about having food or shelter, what have you done to change your current situation and overcome any struggles?"
Let me tell you, most of us do nothing. We blame society, others, parents, friends, relationships, office bosses, and colleagues!!
I did that, too! I have no shame in accepting that I do! "But I have come to the realization that does it really make me a loser? An unlucky loser who is useless because she doesn't have anyone to cry with? Trust me, later on, I found out that it doesn't matter what another person thinks about you as long as you know inside that you are not! You have potential and are doing well, and you can do more good if you focus your interests in the right direction. Remember, in one of my blogs, I said, when you are right, you do not need other people's approval! You need to start what you have to do! The people you are concerned about will always talk behind your back, and you will always be useless to them. Isn't it time to stop convincing them and start working on yourself?"
Why do you care about what they say?
Why not care about what you can do?
Please excuse yourself from constantly creating issues to seek luxury! Consider that you may only be alive for about 65 to 70 years. You will likely be active and working from 25 to 60 or 65, and then you may face health concerns that could slow you down. If, by your 40s, you're stuck on thoughts like "Why am I considered useless? Is it because I didn't receive enough support?" then it's time to seriously evaluate your thinking process first because not only others but you also have enough contribution in the course of your uselessness!
"Please give this some serious thought! And always remember, you are not useless; you are worthy the moment you were born! "
I would like you all to view this video link of Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam Sir's video link to get some inspiration, which I had! : https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=LtqVCAWWe2A