Recently, on a very personal journey, I was struggling with one of my decisions, and that is when I identified some steps that helped me get to the point.
- Clarity: Get crystal clear about what you truly want in life. Delve into what truly matters to you!
- Identify subconscious blocks: If you want a goal to be fulfilled but that is yet not manifested in life, it is because something inside of you is not yet aligned.
- Healing: If you are done with the above two, then when it comes to solving the issue, if it may require healing, you should consider that. It can be in any form; seeing a therapist, you can sit down and work on yourself by meditation, exercise, journaling, and breathing exercises. Like many others nowadays, I can also tell you this truly empowers you!
- Self Concept: The final step to solve your issue. Now that you have manifested it, how would I sustain it? You must start working on it.
Listen, tell yourself a positive story about yourself: I have understood it, I have identified it, I can do it, I deserve it. Telling this story again and again will make things true for you. It will.
Every morning, give yourself a few minutes to talk to yourself.
It is very strange that we give importance to talking to others but not ourselves! Keep telling positive things to yourself; believe me, the energy you will create for yourself will make your path easier to overcome the hurdles you are facing.